3 Steps to a good night’s sleep

According to the American Sleep Association, approximately 30% of adult Americans suffer from insomnia. That is nearly 1/3 of adults! Are you one of those statistics? If you are, then you certainly are not alone.

So what can you do about it? The best place to start with getting a good night’s sleep is what we call “sleep hygiene”. Sleep hygiene involves a few simple, easy to follow steps to improve your sleeping environment and routine.

Melatonin: The Hormone of Sleep

Our bodies love routines and rhythms and many of our hormones are secreted according to very specific physiological rhythms.

One such hormone is melatonin. It is the hormone that makes us sleepy and helps us sleep. Ideally, it is released at night in darkness and its release is stopped or inhibited when the eyes are exposed to light in the morning.

Sunlight wakes you up.

The Circadian Cycle

Produced by the pineal gland, melatonin helps set the timing of our body’s biological clock. This timing is known as the circadian cycle or rhythm and is a 24-hour cycle of physiological processes associated with periods of light and darkness.

So the first step in getting a good night’s sleep and overcoming insomnia is to ensure your body’s biological clock is ticking correctly – that melatonin is being released at the right time of the day .

When our eyes are exposed to light then melatonin is NOT released. So what does this mean? Simple……expose your eyes to too much light at night and you will be awake at night. Think….televisions, cell phones, laptops….bright lights of any kind inhibit melatonin release and keep you awake.

Now that you understand the basic physiology of sleep, follow these three steps to get yourself sleeping at NIGHT and being awake during the day.

Falling asleep during the day?
Can’t keep awake?

I must warn you, following these three steps is not as easy as I make it sound. This is because you have to stick to the same time and same routine every single night for about three weeks. So before you begin, take a look at your work and social schedules and really think of a routine that will fit in with those.

Step 1: Reset Your Body Clock

As I mentioned earlier, the first step to getting a good night’s sleep is to establish a routine. It is really important that you decide on what time you want to go to sleep at night (i.e. when you want to encourage the release of melatonin) and what time you want to wake up in the morning (i.e. when you want to stop the release of melatonin). Then stick to these times no matter what!

Remember, you are re-setting your circadian rhythm. Your body needs to get into a 24-hour routine of having light and dark exposure at the same times every 24-hours. You want to feel sleepy at night and awake in the morning and not the other way around.

You can reset your body clock.

So here is what you need to do to reset your body clock:

  1. Get into bed at the same time every night.
  2. Set your alarm for the same time every morning. 
  3. As soon as your alarm rings expose your eyes to bright light for a few minutes – it is very important that you do this at the same time every day.

Step 2: Have a Bed-time Routine

Again, it is all about that routine. Create a little ‘ritual’ that signals to your body and brain that it is time to slow down, wind down and relax. Try to start your routine about an hour before you want to go to sleep and stick to the same time and the same routine every single night.

  1. Do not eat a heavy meal for 3 hours before you go to bed.
  2. Have a warm milky drink (click here for our Cardamon Milk Recipe).
  3. Warm up your body – have a warm bath/shower or do some gentle stretching.
  4. Get into bed and relax for at least 30 minutes – read, chat to a partner or simply daydream! 

Most important – absolutely NO technology, cell phones, laptops, television etcetera in this last hour before bedtime. If you really struggle with insomnia then no technology for at least two hours before sleep.

Step 3: Clear Out Your Bedroom

Your bedroom is for sleep, relaxation and sex only!  There must be no TV, cellphones, ipads, laptops, flashing digital clocks etcetera in your room.  It needs to be a quiet, peaceful place that you can retreat to and switch off in.

I suggest that the first thing you do when you get home today (or if you are at home take a break and do this right now) is go into your bedroom and spend ten minutes turning it into a peaceful retreat. It is quick and easy to do and will make a difference to your sleep.

  1. Get rid of all the clutter in your room. Start with your bedside table and work around your room. Take out all bills, papers, work, things you “are meant to do when you eventually get the time to do them” and put them into a different room. These are not the things for a bedroom!
  2. Now that you have taken out all the clutter sit on your bed and look around your room. You should love everything in your room – everything you look at should be calm, peaceful and remind you of who or what you love. Your bedroom is your sanctuary, your refuge, your escape – your quiet place to relax and switch off.
  3. Now look at the light in your room. You need to have a bright light for early in the mornings when you wake up and a calm, gentle light for your last hour before you go to sleep. In addition, when you turn out the lights your room needs to be as dark as you can possibly get it.

Basic sleep hygiene makes a huge difference to most people’s sleep and it should improve yours too. Follow these three steps for three weeks and then let me know how you are doing. If, after three weeks of strictly adhering to the above, you still have had no change in your sleep then we need to take a deeper look at what is going on.

Sleep well
Sweet dreams!


American Sleep Association https://www.sleepassociation.org/about-sleep/sleep-statistics/

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